When you decide that you want to undergo Christian counseling, the first step will be to select a counselor. The key factor that should be considered in this decision should involve the faith of the counselor, as well as their faith.
It is important to keep in mind that just because a person decides to refer to themselves as a counselor, it does not mean that they have the proper training or experience. You should ensure that the counselor that you choose is licensed in the state where they practice. Additionally, if you expect any type of marriage issue, then you may want to seek out a Christian counselor that has specific training in the dynamics of relationships. Another factor is to find someone that has particular experience in working with couples that are in crisis.
When you meet with a Christian counselor you should ask specific questions in order to determine whether or not they will be a good fit for your particular needs. Some questions to consider asking include:
· What type of license does the counselor hold? The most common that you will likely hear include an LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT or a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, a LCSW, Licensed Clinical Social Worker and an MD, Psychiatrist.
· Which state their license was earned in. It is important to take note that their license needs to be issued from an actual state licensing board, rather than just a national or professional counseling association. Additionally, the license should have been issued from where the counselor is actually practicing, not just any random state.
· Did they earn their degree from an actual accredited school?
· Do they have any other professional credentials, christian anxiety therapist such as memberships or awards in the field?
· Are they experienced in working with couples that are in a crisis situation? What are previous types of situations they have worked with?
· Are they an active participant in their Christian faith?
Just because a person is referring to themselves as a Christian counselor it does not mean that they are actually active in their practices and beliefs. Some questions that will help you determine this include:
· Are the recognized and also recommended by the church community locally?
· Are they regularly attending church and involved in any additional activities with the church?
· Who is their pastor or minister? Are they comfortable with you discussing them with their pastor?
· Do they have a personal statement of faith and do their beliefs conflict with your beliefs?
· What are their views on divorce and marriage?
· Is Scripture or prayer used during counseling sessions?
If you notice that the counselor is uncomfortable or reluctant in any of these questions, you should seek other Christian counseling services to find a person that meshes well with your beliefs and what you want to get out of the counseling sessions.
